Trusting the Process and Trusting Your Heart
Trust is not easy.
When we are “trusting” something or someone, it assumes there is some uncertainty
and we’re “having faith” or trusting something positive will happen.
And typically, we don’t always love to feel uncertainty.
However, most of life is fairly uncertain. We think we know what’s going to happen but then we say,
“Or I could get hit by a bus tomorrow!”
However, do we really think we’ll get hit by a bus? No.
What this shows us is that even in the uncertainty and the possibility of getting hit by a bus,
we TRUST that we likely won’t get hit by the bus and therefore are fairly calm with the uncertainty of what will happen tomorrow.
What is really happening psychologically when we do this is sending ourselves a subconscious message
that we actually think good things are most likely to happen (we’ll be alive tomorrow)
more so than the negative will happen (getting hit by the bus),
I love, love, love “The Law of Detachment” chapter in Deepak Chopra’s book The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success. He writes,
“In detachment lies the wisdom of uncertainty…
in the wisdom of uncertainty lies the freedom from our past,
from the known, which is the prison of past conditioning.
And in our willingness to step into the unknown, the field of all possibilities,
we surrender ourselves to the creative mind that orchestrates the dance of the universe.”
How poetic and reassuring; compassionate and wise. Calming even.
I wonder if you noticed how it spoke to your head or your heart, your thinking brain or your feeling brain, or both.
Or maybe you even felt the two, the thinking brain and the feeling brain, connect with each other in a way that left you feeling calm or some other positive emotion.
If not, give it another read and see what happens. Maybe something even more profound might happen.
If not, no worries. Maybe you’ll notice something come to you in a few days, a week, or even a month from now.
May we all be willing to step into the unknown; to allow ourselves the opportunity to see all the possibilities the universe has to offer.